Psychodynamics of A Sound Relationship

What are the psychodynamics of a sound relationship? This article expounds on this subject. Read on and be inspired by unconditional love.

It is absolutely a satisfactorily wonderful feeling to have a strong affection toward someone whom you love and be favorably loved in return. It’s a typical normal innermost pattern of thoughts and affection to have an attraction or admiration and common interests with someone you love dearly.

Indeed, love is a universal language covering all or a whole collectively. Basically, the factors relating to fundamental principles in a virtually commendable lasting relationship are simply to love faithfully, steadfast in affection and firm in adherence to the promises and obedience of duties. And to love unconditionally with no restrictions at all by conditions exactly as God has loved us — humankind.

How God Sustains Relationships

The fatherly love of God for human being is beyond measure. Making the relationship grow and last a lifetime is quite a hard task at hand, yet possible. Trust with great labor or role, the material from which something is to be made.

It takes three (3) to tango—the mutual work of the couple with God at the center of their relationship—to engage rhythmically and collaboratively, working and carrying through a task requiring sustainable effort to achieve over a lifelong eternity. And of utmost vital significance, bearing in mind that you have a professing Christian partner. Someone who ultimately professes believing in the teachings of our LORD Jesus—to have a surpassingly solid and sound, firm yet one of a stable, healthy relationship, agreeing with accepted norms and similar views.

The typical physical attraction is indeed very usual and not a lasting one—Yet the mental, emotional and spiritual connection is truly rare and distinctively not occurring often, which is solely provided to a few select genuine spiritually matured Christians. Pray, without ceasing, for God’s discernment.

Napakasarap ang tunay na pagmamahal. Masaya ang pakiramdam ng me katuwang ka sa buhay, sa kagalakan at tagumpay gayun din sa pagsubok sa buhay.

10 Psychodynamics of a Sound Relationship

Psychodynamics is the interrelation of the unconscious and conscious mental and emotional forces that determine personality and motivation. How does this work in a sound relationship?

I list ten (10) psychodynamics of a sound relationship as follows:

1. Open communication. An open communication is a great foundation for a relationship to prosper. It is a technicality for expressing ideas and beliefs effectively. Talk some more and then talk again about anything regarding your plans and fears, hobbies and aspirations and eventually deepen the best relationship one can ever have.
2. You can be yourselves with each other. It is seemingly significant that you are absolutely at ease with each other. Enjoying the fundamental contentment and the security of faithfulness, intensively free from any of the negative vibes and vexation, doubt, and tension.
3. Mutual respect. Implies each persona values who the other is and understands the person’s boundaries, too. The quality of being esteemed and have a special regard is excellently ideal.
4. Be open, faithful, and honest in your relationship. Not telling the truth could easily result in a failed relationship. Never court over one person at a time. A broken relationship of courtship is much better than a broken marriage. So know your partner.
5. Trust. A charge of duty imposes faith and confidence in your relationship. Partners should place trust in each other and give each other like the benefit of the doubt.
6. Have fun together. It’s good to enjoy life and be able to unwind or de-stress together, get into some sports activities, hobbies, interest.
7. Meet the parents. Have commitments to honor God’s will as you seek a partner for life with the blessing from the parents, best friends and or mentors and under God’s direction.
8. Support and commitment. Promote the interests, goal and the advocacy of each one. Gentlemen should be considerate of other’s feelings, especially gentleness with women who belong to the weaker sex. With traditional dating, the phase of the relationship allows both of the parties to get comfortable with each other and find common interests through varying activities.
9. Show your good habits. Apologize and mean it. Take the time to thoroughly know each other, care for each other, and eventually develop trust. Show your bad habits. The process of wooing someone by letting them see your true colors is as they do the same for you.
10. Pray for God’s discernment. Pray for each other. Kindly refer to my article on “Conceptual Dating for Christian Couple” and “How to Know if he is the One? “

Bible Verses

1. For you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus. Galatians 3:26.
2. I have loved you with an everlasting love. Jeremiah 30: 1
3. Rejoice in the LORD always; again I will say, rejoice. Philippians 4:4

Trust is a key component of life. If you like and love someone, you will trust him with your personal weaknesses and vulnerabilities. You can be confident they’ll be played with your feelings.

Your relationship with God is quite vital to your Christian walk.